life is not about “creating” yourself…. it is about “finding” yourself. Not like your actually lost because if you are somewhere you technically not lost, but more like life is a journey to figure out to be the best you that you can be. whatever brings your happiness. learning that other’s opinions that used to matter so much dont anymore. its learning to find a way to do things yourself… your way… and love every minute of it. every woman at one point or another will start doing things entirely herself just to prove that she can even if that means dropping everything that was so important at one time or another. the fact that life changes so much with a drop of a hat is what makes this journey so difficult. Its staying focused on the objective no matter what that means.